“Discover exciting new ways to find and attract your dream man with the latest dating tips for women from relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Using these simple secrets you’ll be able to find and keep your Mr. Right, and finally have the passionate, romantic love life you deserve!”
Sound like something you’d be interested in?
I had never heard of Matthew Hussey before. I don’t know, perhaps I was living under a rock or something? I was introduced to him via The Lively Show podcast, and was pleasantly surprised. Matthew’s advice is different than other dating tips and he has a lot of take-actions-right-now tips. He helps women know what to say and do to get men attracted to them.
I found it funny that a lot of advice he gives are things I do already! Not because I have consumed tons and tons of dating advice, but because it’s just who I am. I don’t THINK about these things, or how to play games or seem “cool” – I’m just myself. So I came to the conclusion that I have no trouble ATTRACTING guys. I can hold my own in that arena. My area for improvement is SELECTING the right kind of guy for me and then keeping him. (Ew, even typing that kills me a little inside, haha…) Maybe I shouldn’t say keeping a guy, but finding someone who wants to make things works as much as I do, puts in as much effort as I do, and is as committed as I am. Someone who wants the same things as me.
I’ve been told in the past that my expectations are too high, I’m too picky, that real relationships aren’t full of infatuation, romantic gestures, and that undeniable spark and connection. I’ve been told this by family, friends, and exes. After all that, it’s easy to believe they are right. After all, these are people who are in or have been in long term relationships. While I know my pattern of turmoil, intensity, and repetitive breakups is not ideal, I do know me better than anyone else. All this advice has me second guessing myself and how I feel. Matthew Hussey’s advice was so refreshing because he doesn’t advocate for lowering standards or settling for less than that spark and chemistry. He says it’s OK to be picky about the person you could be spending the rest of your life with.
THANK YOU, Matthew, for being the first person to say this and make me feel ok with feeling this way!
So have I put into any of his advice into practice yet? No. BUT I am super interested in hearing more of what he has to say. You can check out his YouTube channel here (doesn’t hurt that he is easy on the eyes as well 😉 ) and his Podcast here.
Have YOU tried any of Matthew Hussey’s advice? Let me know! I want to hear about it!